The behaviors exhibited by Ms. Posley-Mckinney are preparedness, a calm voice, articulation, and knowledge. Rarely does she say “um” or stumble over her words. She appears to be very comfortable speaking to groups and presents herself in an upstanding manner.
Reflecting on my own communication skills, I would like to model some of Ms. Posley-Mckinney's behaviors. I would like to appear calm and comfortable, not turn 50 shades of red. I would like to have fluidity in my communication with others, not lose my train of thought, stumble over my words and say “um.” I do enjoy presenting and talking to groups, I just let my anxiety get the best of me.
Tracy,
ReplyDeleteI can empathize with you. I struggle with anxiety in any formal (and even informal) speaking arrangement. I find that I talk too quickly, become tangential, and fall into the "um" department as well. It isn't that I'm not confident in my knowledge, but I fear it may come across that way. It sounds like you have an excellent role model!
Sarah